i keep having dreams of been beaten up night after night after night. the people in my dreams are old friends (as in, not friends anymore, thank god). anyway, four years ago my old friends beat me up pretty bad, they used a iron bar, three of them kicking me in as i lay on the floor defenceless, now all of a sudden i keep dreaming of them beating me up again. the dreams dont disturb my sleep, i just dont know why i would dream the same thing every night for the past five days. im abit nervous they are going to attack again for real.

Maybe you're feeling down and defenseless right now?

Maybe the experience of you being beaten is resurfacing for a reason. Maybe you should seek help in dealing with this. It seems you are still in agony over this. I dont believe they will attack again, but I am no doctor , but the fear of it is coming out in your dreams. Please seek help in dealing with this before it becomes a deeper problem for you. There is NO shame in seeking help to disolve a problem. Wish the best for you.

Try to ignore it and it should go away.

you need to seek these old friends out one by one and beat the hell out of them one by one. Then you tell them every month this will happen to you, but it wont happen at times you arent expecting. Then instead of you being haunted it will be them whos dreams are haunted by the thought of a beating again by you. Or like cricket said maybe talk to someone that will help you, that is probably a better solution to the problem.

gunner36, I don't know about you but violence is never the answer.Storm I just thought of a good soloution,Just call the cops on them retards.

I think that's a GREAT idea, gunner. It would make ME feel better in that situation. Whoever said revenge never solves anything doesn't know the joys of revenge! Hehehehah!

I dont think the cops will do anything based on dreams someone is having of being beaten. If they do then we are all in for a rough road ahead. My previous post was partly a joke but partly reality, violence isnt always the answer but sometimes it is the only answer. You cant allow people to walk all over you.

I used to have these sort of dreams. I try to fight back but my punches and kicks are so weak. Even though i do thai boxing i cant inflict any pain on my opponents. I wish i had tazers im my dreams.:cry:

thanks for the replys, sorry also because i havent been on the forum for awhile. anyway the dreams have stopped, im on anti depression tablets because of some shit from years ago. i dont know if its right for me to say this here but i feel you people are my only friends and to be honest i feel like killing myself, i had this friend but she decided i wasnt good enough to be her friend so she dumped me, this was over a year ago and everyday i think about her and i love her and i cant live without her anymore.

Storm - I'm really sorry you've been through what you have - can I suggest you see a GP and ask for post traumatic stress counselling? The beating still plays on your mind and you need to talk that through with someone.

As for the girl - there's nothing I can say will change you in that respect or the way things are - but listen.....time really does heal.....and life rarely gets worse - only better - wherever you are at now the future represents something brighter, something better - grasp it my friend - make your life do what you want it to do. Don't be a victim - fight back.

I wish you well.

Ben

Don't give in to it. Sh&t WILL get better. Life sucks, then you live & go on.

Quote: thanks for the replys, sorry also because i havent been on the forum for awhile. anyway the dreams have stopped, im on anti depression tablets because of some shit from years ago. i dont know if its right for me to say this here but i feel you people are my only friends and to be honest i feel like killing myself, i had this friend but she decided i wasnt good enough to be her friend so she dumped me, this was over a year ago and everyday i think about her and i love her and i cant live without her anymore.

Don't try and kill yourself.That is a horrible thing to do or say.If there is anything bad that happens just ignore it, thats how I get through my life.(p.s.I am sorry I didn't tell you this before but when I lived in ludlow,Pa I got beat'n up too by my friends and cousin.Don't let the thoughts bother you and you will get by.)