I have a wonderful friend ,she has a heart of gold , and says and does things only for the sole purpose of helping you.The problem comes to this, In all of her caring, she gets to personal, and , ok, for example. My hubby and I were talking about moving to Louisiana, without saying a word she started calling movers. I started getting calls at my home to her from moving companies. They told me she was in charge of our moving! Another example. We play a game on the computer called slingo and if I am not in the room at a certain time, she calls my house. She wants to know where I am all the time. And now she is started asking about my hubby and saying her husband is asking about his buddy. I feel as is I am being stalked. We have visted with them in there home and they are wonderful, fun loving , honest people. They have visited in our home also. We get along so good. But, I dont know if it's just me, but, I feel something is not right. Is it me or do you think I should be concerned? This lady has stood by my side in some very tough decisions I have had to make recently. I would never want to hurt her in any way, just feel uneasy.

maybe you should just sit her down and tell her how it is. im sure she will understand

I think you should just leave it alone unless ,she keeps bugging you then I would have a little talk with them.But you gotta try and sound as calm as possiblle though so you don't hurt her feelings.

maybe your friend doesnt realise what shes doing and upseting you

I agree, and if she doesnt understand, then maybe she isnt as good of a friend as she appears to be.

I have tried to talk to her about this , and she does understand . Her husband even tells her to keep out of our personal lives before the friendship is destroy. I truely understand she wants to help but she just gets so gung ho and she either doesnt understand or it makes no difference, and that I guess is what I have to decide .Thank you all for your responses.

Sheesh! Tell her "my husband and I need personal space". Even the closest of friends must respect each others privacy.