Thread: to say i do , or not

Sorry about that, Cricket.

He's bound to slip up eventually, though.

Originally posted by kellyb
[b]Hmm...I'm usually not one to advocate being sneaky like this, but could you secretely record him saying "She'll never believe you"?
To hell with the legalities!

I love this. Maybe you could help the process along with some booze.

I'm sorry to hear she has gone ahead and done the deed, it amazes me how love blinds us. Just keep an eye on her and make sure she knows you are there for her if she needs help.

Originally posted by I watch
[b]I love this. Maybe you could help the process along with some booze.

I'm sorry to hear she has gone ahead and done the deed, it amazes me how love blinds us. Just keep an eye on her and make sure she knows you are there for her if she needs help.

When a person looks at love like a security blanket, no one can tell them anything. Co dependancy is a drug, it really is. A person can be just fine by them selves.

That is very true. I know women and men who are in miserable marriages and stay because they don't want to be alone. It makes me very angry. I have a good friend who's boyfriend almost killed her when he was in a drug induced psychotic state, and after about 6 months she went back to him convincing herself it was the drugs that caused him to do this, that he had nothing to do with it. I just don't understand!!

Well, if he was on LSD at the time then it was most definetly the drug...

No, alcohol and pot. Apparently he is ok if he doesn't have any drugs, but if he does it could happen again. I personally couldnt go anywhere near him again if I was her.

Originally posted by I watch
[b]That is very true. I know women and men who are in miserable marriages and stay because they don't want to be alone. It makes me very angry. I have a good friend who's boyfriend almost killed her when he was in a drug induced psychotic state, and after about 6 months she went back to him convincing herself it was the drugs that caused him to do this, that he had nothing to do with it. I just don't understand!!

The main point is in someone's mind...
Just where do I draw the line?
Just when did love go foul?

It's all answered by.. What will become of this in the future?

Feelings and needs aside, sometimes it literally takes years for either spouce to make up their minds to quit. Sometimes they have a little help by an extramarital affair. That usually seals it.